I’m almost finished decorating my apartment! Truth be told, I’m sorry to see the project end (although my wallet is VERY relieved). It has been incredibly fun, and I’ve learned a lot. There were days that didn’t go as planned, like the time I was frustrated that a container garden was going to be impossible on our teeny-tiny balcony, or the time I was bummed that I couldn’t afford to buy a gorgeous mirrored side table (even though it was on sale!), and more than one time when I literally had to drag the boyfriend to The Container Store so we could figure out storage solutions…. but all in all, it was an awesome learning experience that (in my humble opinion) resulted in a very comfortable, stylish home.

I’m gearing up to post pictures of the “final” product (I still need to hang some art and figure out what I’m going to do about the gaping wall space by the front door), but in the meantime I thought I’d share some of the places I found inspiration. I often picked up decor magazines (like Better Homes and Gardens or HGTV’s magazine) or read books (like Sabrina Soto’s book, entitled Sabrina Soto Home Design, in which she provides a “layer-by-layer approach” to decorating your home), but there are tons of online resources that are absolutely free.

In no particular order, I give you… The Sensational Six!

1. Design*Sponge is a blog run by Grace Bonney. According to their website, the site “updates between 6-8 times per day and was declared a ‘Martha Stewart Living for the Millennials’ by the New York Times.” Oo La La.

Divided into categories such as Spaces, Places, Before+After, DIY, Entertaining, and Biz Ladies, Design*Sponge allows you to virtually sneak around apartments and houses. Like most of the sites on this list, the main attraction for me are all of the photos. You can read a million how-to guides on decorating a space, but sometimes a simple photograph of a beautiful living room will give you more ideas that a hundred guides.

One of the recent posts on Design*Sponge featured the home of designer/author Abigail Ahern. Check out that fantastic oversized chandelier. Sometimes you just gotta go big.

 2. apartment therapy is another blog with some awesome pictures. Like Design*Sponge, apartment therapy has DIY, Before and Afters, and tours of real homes. In addition, they answer real design questions sent in by readers.

What sets apartment therapy apart, however, is their attention to OTHER aspects of modern living. Categories like Green Living, Budget Living, and How To are great resources if you’re wondering how the hell to cut a mat to frame a picture. Sometimes they even do tech reviews (the iPhone 5 got a fair amount on attention).

Finally, if you need some dinner suggestions, look no further: The Kitchn is a related site with a bunch of recipes. Fried Apple Rings with Cinnamon Dip?

Yes, please.

3. HGTV.com has provided me with hours of entertainment. Seriously, I cannot tell you how many times I have utilized this site. You can use through their many categories (Decorating, Outdoors, Rooms), but I find their search bar to be the most helpful. Try looking up “small apartment,” and voilà! You now have access to 120 articles, 75 SETS of photos, 19 videos, and a special feature that are all either dedicated to or include advice about small apartments. You can also search “dark paint,” or “small chair”…whatever! Poke around for a while…it’s a goldmine.

Here’s a particularly cute bathroom that I found a few months ago. Those shelves are Ikea, my friends.

4. Pinterest may not be new to you, but there was no way I could forsake it.
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Although you don’t need an account to browse through the thousands of images, I recommend setting one up (it’s free). Once you have one, you can save (‘pin’) your favorite images, and return to them later. It’s like having a design board at home, but without the hassle of saving scraps and cutting out pictures.

Here’s a random sample of images I found under the category “Home Decor.”

Pinterest is by no means a design-only site. There are tons of categories, from Humor to Travel to Tattoos, and you can search for your own keywords as well.  I recommend “funny dog.”

5. The Fancy was introduced to me by the lovely Susan Truong, event planner extraordinaire. It’s is very similar to Pinterest, but with one HUGE AND AWESOME distinction: you can actually BUY the stuff you see! You obviously need an account if you want to purchase anything, but you can also just browse through the many images.

Susan recently found an awesome tub caddy that she wanted me to buy. Too bad im afraid of sitting in rental bathtubs.


6. The Everygirl is last, but definitely not least. This site was created by Alaina Kaczarski and Danielle Moss, but they have over 15 contributors. The Everygirl is aimed at women in their 20s and 30s, and so it includes categories such as Career, Fashion, and Finance. They even have a Job Board.

But I digress. From an interior design perspective, the aspect of The Everygirl that I enjoy most is the Living section. There are lots of pictures (of course), but they also provide some practical advice on throwing parties, organizing your kitchen, or decorating an apartment on the cheap (check out their Ten Favorite 10 Ikea Finds),

Here’s a picture from a current post dedicated to throwing an end of summer party. I don’t think you need to be throwing a party to appreciate the time and detail that went in to setting this table. Check out those flowers!

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Well, that about covers it! If you have any sites you’d like to add to my list, please let me know in the comments!

Thanks for reading.

Lauren

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Lauren Spieller
SIGHTLESS
Young Adult, Urban Fantasy
72,000 words
 
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Dear Agent,

When Liam, a handsome Irishman with a cool car, kidnaps Carly in the middle of the day and offers her a seat on an ancient demon council known as the Dominatori, she wants to know what’s in it for her. A lifelong fight to keep the existence of demons a secret? It isn’t exactly the extracurricular she’s been looking for. But when Liam reveals that her missing mother was once a prominent member of the Dominatori, Carly seizes the opportunity to finally understand the woman who disappeared when she was thirteen.

Carly is on her way to becoming a full-fledged member of the council when she’s given an ultimatum: prove her commitment to the cause by killing her best friend Tyler (who she happens to be in love with), or the Dominatori will kill Tyler and her entire family — or what’s left of it. Carly must decide if she will follow her mother’s path, tracking down those demons who kill for pleasure, or if she will stand up to an ancient tradition that threatens the lives of the people she loves most.

Complete at 72,000 words, Sightless is an Young Adult urban fantasy novel in which the most deadly characters are women.

I am a Los Angeles native with a Midwestern education from University of Illinois and University of Notre Dame. Recently, my short, psychological horror story “Itch” placed in the LitReactor.com “Scare Us!” competition, earning me feedback from author Craig Clevenger. When I’m not working at UCLA or thinking about the gender politics of Buffy the Vampire Slayer, I’m writing about the YA genre and life in LA at laurenspieller.com. However, the most important thing to know about me is that I love dogs like it’s my job.

Thank you for your time and consideration.

Sincerely,

Lauren Spieller
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First 150 Words
 
Carly expected her first time in a club to be exciting and sexy, but from where she lay sprawled on the ground, she just felt sticky.
Grimacing she picked a cigarette butt out of her hair and flicked it away. A mass of bodies towered above her, jumping and screaming — their combined heat was suffocating. Carly pulled her knees into her chest. This was not worth sneaking past a bouncer.
After a few seconds, it became clear that no one was going to apologize for shoving her, or offer their hand to help her up. Carly struggled to her feet, using her purse to fend off a drunk brunette stumbling around in silver stilettos. Once she was standing, she hopped up and down to get a better view. The stage was only twenty feet away, but the throng of people in front of her looked impenetrable.

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The Modern World has got me down, folks.

I’ve been pushing myself to write a lot lately, but between my job, my job hunt, the intern search, reading/commenting on other writer’s manuscripts, and FINALLY getting the bulk of the apartment decorating all squared away…I’ve been pretty swamped.

But everyone is busy these days. Job. Family. Internships. School. Friends. Hobby. Commuting. Dating. Second job. Blogging. Networking. Travel. Second Hobby… There’s not much time to just relax, is there?

I read an article in Newsweek a few weeks ago about how being constantly plugged in (to smart phones, laptops, e-readers, iPads, Twitter feeds, Facebook accounts, and whatever else) is not only hurting our interpersonal relationships,  it’s changing the way our brains actually function. We’re developing addictions to these various devices.

Don’t believe me? Try not using any single piece of technology for the next five minutes. No cell phone. No computer. No television.

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I’ve been trying to unplug more, but it’s hard. If I want to work on Sightless, which I try to do daily, I have to be at a computer (I’m not able to write longhand…plus I end up crossing out so much that it’s illegible). There are things I can do with pen and paper, like brainstorming and scene plotting, but the real meat of the project has to happen on my laptop. Curses!

Patrick and I have tried to unplug after 10:30pm, but let’s be real: that’s prime time for 20-somethings. I can’t write at work, and he has so many responsibilities (grad school/writing and managing ChimeraResearchGroup.com/investing on his own) that he’s rarely ready to stop working at 10:30. So what’s to be done?

A few things have worked for me so far. One is forcing myself to ignore the phone whenever I’m walking or driving, even if I’m waiting at a long LA traffic light. Another is leaving my cell phone in the car (or at the very least in my purse) if I go to a restaurant. I’m always baffled by how many people I see texting during dinner instead of talking to the person RIGHT IN FRONT OF THEM. Sure, there are emergency calls or business emails you unfortunately can’t ignore, but most of the time these texts are about what you’re doing the next day, or whether or not you saw The Dark Knight in 3D yet. HAVE SOME SELF RESTRAINT PEOPLE. And besides…it’s just bad manners.

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So here’s my question to you: what do you do to relax at the end of the day? Do you have the same technology issues I do, or have you found some way to resist the temptation of that blinking light on your smart phone? How, in other words, do you cope with all the distractions of the Modern World?

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Where do you write?
In my lovely home office, mostly. But if I need to get out of the house, I walk to Coffee Bean and pray there’s a table near an outlet.
Go to your writing space, sit down and look to your left. What is the first thing you see?
Note-taking accoutrement! Pens, pencils, post-its, note pads, and scraps of random paper. I also have a big, green plastic board covered in sticky notes b/c the other night I had a hard time planning out a scene and I needed to see it visually.
Favorite time to write?
When I’m feeling energized…and that can happen at any time, day or night.
Drink of choice while writing?
Coffee and Water.
When writing , do you listen to music or do you need complete silence?
Silence. Or background noise of people talking. If music is playing, I just sing along! Florence and the Machine totally sidetracked my good intentions last night.
What was your inspiration for your latest manuscript and where did you find it?
I was in the shower, thinking about fantasy (like you do), and I suddenly yelled “DEMONS!”
What’s your most valuable writing tip?
Do the thing that scares you, whether it’s tackling a tough topic, writing dialogue, or just plain old writing, period. If it scares you, it means there’s something there worth exploring.
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I’m so excited to read everyone’s responses. If you’ve read mine, I want to read yours! Leave me a comment with a link to your blog and I’ll head on over.
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About a month ago, LitReactor.com announced “Scare Us!”, the site’s first short story competition. From the get go, I didn’t have any plans to enter. I’ve not written many short stories, I’m not a horror fan, and I’ve never ever considered writing any of my own. So when I saw the competition, I simply contented myself with looking forward to reading the submissions.

That was, until a confluence of events conspired against my horror-hating self. Around 11:30 one night, I had an idea, born of real life experience (not my own), an interest in psychological pain, and a few twisted imaginings. Over the next three hours later, “Itch” slowly emerged.

I went back to the “Scare Us!” page and read the directions more closely. They were pretty strict. Must be under 4,000 words. Set in your hometown. Features an original monster. At least 3 deaths. I expected these guidelines to be a pain, but they ended up providing a pretty unique the frame for the story (if I do say so myself).

Anyway, LitReactor released the winners today, and I placed! Obviously I wish I had won, but since it’s my very first attempt at horror and only my third or fourth attempt at short fiction, I’m pretty pleased.
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I’m not going to post it here because I’m going to look into publication eventually, but if you want to read it, head over to LitReactor.com and check it out “ITCH.” You may have to create a log-in, but it’s free to sign up, takes about 3 seconds, and grants you access to a bunch of terrifying fiction…for FREE!

So head on over and check it out. I’d love to hear what you think. But fair warning: don’t read it ITCH if you have plans to eat any time soon. 😉

Thanks for reading.

Lauren

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This is just a quick shout-out to some fantastic advice from great authors that I came across recently. If you’re currently writing, if you like to read, or if you’re just looking for a quick, fun distraction…this is definitely worth your time.

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I know you’ve all been dying to find out what happened with our apartment hunt, so I won’t keep you waiting any longer…

You may recall the lengths we went to in order to find the perfect place (hours upon hours of searching, websites and drive-bys a plenty), and the things we were looking for (2 bedrooms, dishwasher, close to the beach, natural light, no loud music at 2 a.m. on a Tuesday). Not so much to ask for, right? Let’s look at the facts.

FACT 1 Finding an apartment in Los Angeles takes time, so start early.

This is true, but it is also true that when you find a place, you need to be ready to MOVE on it. As I searched Westsiderentals.com for the fourth time in as many hours, I came across a 2 bedroom, 1 3/4 bath townhouse (2 floors, people!!) in Marina del Rey. Venice Beach was 2 Miles away. Natural light. Wood floors. A fireplace. A gorgeous kitchen/bathroom. When I had stopped hyperventilating, I called the listed number and tried to sound like a reasonable, clean human being without pets, who deserved this kind of unit. The landlady wanted to give the tenants a full 24 hours notice before we burst through the door and rummaged in their cabinets (a good sign, right?), so we scheduled an appointment and I started mentally decorating my new digs.

Fast forward to our appointment with destiny. Patrick and I raced across town after I got out of work, and were horrified to see that we were not the only people at our scheduled walk-through. I flew up the front steps past a 20-something guy in a motorcycle jacket and introduced myself to the landlady and her son, the manager.

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We took a super-speed tour, made sure it was a) actually 2 bedrooms, and b) not haunted, and BOOM: we were ready.Well, I was ready. Patrick had whiplash (but also a hefty dose of go-for-it-ness). We filled out the applications in the car while the other suckers took theirs home to fill out, then returned them to the lady lady with giant, triumphant, manic smiles on our faces. Two hours later, we had a deal.

And that, ladies and gentlemen, is HOW IT IS DONE.

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Unfortunately, this remains true. In my hurry to claim this place (they had 4 interested parties, and the listing had barely been up 48 hours), I failed to notice a few snags in my master plan. First: the floors were actually carpeted, not wood. When we went through a second, slower, more calm walk through a few days later, Patrick pointed this out to me, and my heart sank. Carpet…was gross. Right? Second, the kitchen was so tiny that you can’t open the dishwasher and access the trash can simultaneously. And we have to have a shower curtain: this probably isn’t an actual problem for most people, but I hate shower curtains. A lot.

But the place is huge. We have two balconies, both facing the ocean (no view, but plenty of breeze and sun). We only have one shared wall, and our neighbors are lovely. It also turns out that we have berber carpet, which is the carpet of the rich and famous. Or so I imagine, because this stuff is GREAT.

Anyway, long story short: we didn’t get EVERYTHING we wanted, but we’re pretty darn close. We even have a few things I didn’t know I wanted, like that magic carpet and two coffee shops within walking distance.

So, without further delay, here’s what I know you’ve all been waiting for. PICTURES.

Moral of the Story: Keep looking. Stick to your guns. Move fast. Don’t trust people in motor cycle jackets.

Lauren

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Patrick and I have been itching to move for a while now. We’ve only been in our current place for a year, but we realized too late that we had been looking for love in all the wrong places.

Let’s back up. Last time around, we relied mostly on Craigslist. We drove around the streets of LA, desperate to find a one bedroom apartment near the beach. If it was within 4 miles of Santa Monica or Venice, we’d check it out.  One particularly lovely unit was completely devoid of natural light, smelled like mildew, and the raging traffic outside refused to fade into the background as the grumpy landlady promised. Another unit was only 15 blocks from the pier, but when we opened the door to what we thought was a bedroom, it turned out to be the exit. That was when we realized that we could only afford a studio apartment this close to the water.

Again and again, we returned home, dejected and (usually) hungry.
We’d go back to Craigslist, because maybe THIS time would be different.

And then, one night, it was: a beautiful unit with granite counter tops, bamboo floors, a dishwasher AND extra storage. It was $1,400/mo for under 600 square feet (that was huge, right?!) and the street was pretty busy, but we didn’t care! Did I mention GRANITE COUNTER TOPS? We begged to see the unit immediately, raced over at 9 o’clock at night, and signed the lease the next day. Ahhhh, the relief.     

Fast forward to 3 months later: all my furniture and all his grad school work crammed into ONLY 600 square feet (what is this, Manhattan?!) We were pinned between two neighbors who played loud mariachi music one minute, and complained about our faucets running at 10pm the next. When a woman cornered me in the laundry room and accused me of touching her towels, I knew it was time to start looking. Unfortunately, we still had 9 months on our lease.

Now that our lease is FINALLY up, we have begun the hunt. He wants a dishwasher, I want more space. He wants a breeze, I want light. He won’t live on the third floor, I won’t live East of the 405 (I attended school in the Midwest for a total of 7 years. I am NOT moving more than 5 miles from the beach!)  Nothing insurmountable, but the list of “must haves” is definitely growing faster than our paychecks, and we can’t seem to find a place that doesn’t make a jail cell look like an open floor plan. I highlighted side effects of furosemide that can help with what to expect while using the medication in this Lasix Page. Here is a short guide on how to take furosemide properly. If you have other questions regarding the medications, please be sure to click the https://thetimeinusa.com/lasix/ to get Information about medicine.

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FACT 1 Finding an apartment in Los Angeles takes time, so start early.

FACT 2 The amount of money you want to pay will never match the type of apartment you want to rent.

FACT 3 You cannot survive on Craigslist alone.

So, we’re on the hunt, and we are going to be victorious. We’ve added padmapper.com, Westsiderentals.com, and stealthy drive-bys to our repertoire, and we are going to be VICTORIOUS.  We’re going to stalk our prey, release our arrows, pierce the heart and eat the bloody flesh of a two bedroom, two bathroom unit near the beach. All for under $2,100/month.

What?! I really want a great apartment.

Tune in next time to find out if Lauren and Patrick find somewhere to live, or if they end up in a cardboard box like she always expected she would after graduating with a degree in English. 

spoiler alert: We do. We did.

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An article by Meghan Cox Gurdon titled “Darkness Too Visible” recently appeared in the Wall Street Journal. In it, Gurdon suggests that Young Adult novels have become too dark, too “adult,” for readers in the YA category, and that the themes/content and language should be carefully moderated in order to make sure that the content is age appropriate. She equates novels about teen rape (that happens, people) with “envelope pushing,” and refuses to accept that freedom of speech is actually pretty darn important. “No family is obliged to acquiesce when publishers use the vehicle of fundamental free-expression principles to try to bulldoze coarseness or misery into their children’s lives” (Gurdon, “Darkness Too Visible”).

Gurdon straddles the fence in an attempt to please everyone and no one, explaining in one single paragraph that she doesn’t blame mean old entertainment for turning kids into sociopaths, BUTBUTBUT “entertainment does not merely gratify taste…but creates it.” So which is it, Gurdon?

Yet it is also possible—indeed, likely—that books focusing on pathologies help normalize them and, in the case of self-harm, may even spread their plausibility and likelihood to young people who might otherwise never have imagined such extreme measures. Self-destructive adolescent behaviors are observably infectious and have periods of vogue (Gurdon, Darkness Too Visible)

Books that focus on so-called “pathologies” are not normalizing these actions, but showing kids that they are not alone. Teens are abducted. Men are raped. Girls cut themselves. These things not only happen, they happen a lot. Not every kid has a fantastic relationship with an adult that will allow them to have a calm, constructive chat about the various things happening in their lives.

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I originally planned on writing a much longer, angrier response to her article, which I think is uninformed at best, but I came across so many fantastic responses that I don’t think I need to say much more. Please read the article, and if you have time, take a look at some of the very insightful responses out there from YA authors, parents, and teens alike. Good work, internet. 

Thanks for reading.

Lauren

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I’m a few months into this project, but I think I’ll start by giving a little background on myself and my thoughts on the YA genre. I apologize in advance if I get preachy or long-winded. Feel free to skip ahead.

I’ve wanted to be a writer for a long time, but previous attempts never amounted to much more than overly indulgent memoir pages and a few half-assed, workshop short stories. When the idea for Sightless came to me, I was six months out of grad school and a few months into a job I wasn’t completely crazy about. The Timing Was Perfect, as Jermaine would say.

I’m a big fan of Young Adult literature, especially those novels that push back on the seeming confines of the genre. Harry Potter, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, The Disreputable History of Frankie Landau-Banks, The Hunger Games, His Dark Materials, Go Ask Alice … all fantastic novels that need not be thought of as specifically for readers “between twelve and eighteen.” Sure, they mostly feature teenagers, and these teenagers are often dealing with school and dating and bullies…but at what age do these things stop being relevant? Replace school with work, dating with marriage, bullies with…well, older bullies.

We watch these characters face obstacles that are often more adult than “real life” challenges (the novels I’ve already mentioned are great examples of this).There’s a reason that so many of these YA books are being made into movies recently, and its not JUST that the plots are exciting, the characters are dynamic, and the writing is visual and awesome.For my part, I think the biggest reason is that the themes are more “adult” than “young.” Take The Hunger Games.

But YA fiction doesn’t have to involve caged death matches to be ground breaking or sexually charged. The Disreputable History is probably the least well know of those books, but it’s a great example of how YA characters can engage readers without resorting to the use of sparkly vampire pedophiles (you know the ones). Frankie, the title character, is a sophomore at a private school, and she’s recently undergone “the change” from Ugly Duckling to Swan Princess. Seemingly: Snore City. But as she becomes part of the in-crowd, she realizes that she’s not content to be another pretty face on the sidelines of the male-dominated superdupersecretsociety known as the Basset Hounds. May sound corny, but her not-exactly-purposefully-feminist agenda and her Oceans Eleven-esq talent for mayhem turn this simple story about a pretty girl in high school into a fast paced, well-written cracker jack of a book. Take that, Bella imgoingtojustlaydownanddie Swan.

So, if their trials and tribulations are so adult, what’s the “young” part all about? I think what makes these books specifically YA novels is more than just the fact that the characters are underage. It’s that their approach to their lives is not that of an adult. They haven’t gone through 19-50 years of bullshit yet, so their identity is still developing. It’s this malleability that makes them relatable to readers of all ages. If you yourself are under 18, you may feel like these characters are just like you. If you’re 45 and you’re reading these books, you might see your young self, your children, or your weird, evil-vanquishing “inner child” in these characters. However you approach the business of reading, YA novels aren’t going to give you an adult’s perspective on life. They’re going to give you a coming-of-age, figuring-this-messy-shit-out perspective. It’s transitional, and that’s exciting and useful.

So! I was reading these books in addition to my usual more “literary” reads, and I realized I wanted to write a Young Adult book more than I wanted to be the next James Joyce. (Actually, I was in the shower, and I suddenly yelled out DEMONS!) I’m a *huge* Buffy fan, so that coupled with my undying dedication to Harry Potter made me wary of going down the path of fantasy fiction…but I couldn’t resist. I won’t give away the plot, but suffice it to say that I wanted to make sure that my book would stand on its own two horned, scaly feet, and not devolve into some sort of spin off. Or worse: fan fiction.

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However, if you’re interested in picking up some YA fiction from your local library/Barnes and Noble/computer, here are links to the aforementioned titles. If you have any to add or recommend, I’d be more than happy to hear about them.

Thanks for reading.  Check back soon!

Lauren

  1. The Disreputable History of Frankie Landau-Banks by E. Lockhart
  2. The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins
  3. Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone by J.K. Rowling
  4. The Golden Compass by Philip Pullman (Book 1 of His Dark Materials)
  5. The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky
  6. Go Ask Alice by Anonymous

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