Woes of the Modern World

The Modern World has got me down, folks.

I’ve been pushing myself to write a lot lately, but between my job, my job hunt, the intern search, reading/commenting on other writer’s manuscripts, and FINALLY getting the bulk of the apartment decorating all squared away…I’ve been pretty swamped.

But everyone is busy these days. Job. Family. Internships. School. Friends. Hobby. Commuting. Dating. Second job. Blogging. Networking. Travel. Second Hobby… There’s not much time to just relax, is there?

I read an article in Newsweek a few weeks ago about how being constantly plugged in (to smart phones, laptops, e-readers, iPads, Twitter feeds, Facebook accounts, and whatever else) is not only hurting our interpersonal relationships,  it’s changing the way our brains actually function. We’re developing addictions to these various devices.

Don’t believe me? Try not using any single piece of technology for the next five minutes. No cell phone. No computer. No television.

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I’ve been trying to unplug more, but it’s hard. If I want to work on Sightless, which I try to do daily, I have to be at a computer (I’m not able to write longhand…plus I end up crossing out so much that it’s illegible). There are things I can do with pen and paper, like brainstorming and scene plotting, but the real meat of the project has to happen on my laptop. Curses!

Patrick and I have tried to unplug after 10:30pm, but let’s be real: that’s prime time for 20-somethings. I can’t write at work, and he has so many responsibilities (grad school/writing and managing ChimeraResearchGroup.com/investing on his own) that he’s rarely ready to stop working at 10:30. So what’s to be done?

A few things have worked for me so far. One is forcing myself to ignore the phone whenever I’m walking or driving, even if I’m waiting at a long LA traffic light. Another is leaving my cell phone in the car (or at the very least in my purse) if I go to a restaurant. I’m always baffled by how many people I see texting during dinner instead of talking to the person RIGHT IN FRONT OF THEM. Sure, there are emergency calls or business emails you unfortunately can’t ignore, but most of the time these texts are about what you’re doing the next day, or whether or not you saw The Dark Knight in 3D yet. HAVE SOME SELF RESTRAINT PEOPLE. And besides…it’s just bad manners.

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I’m already starting to notice a positive change. I feel more relaxed when I read or sit outside, or talk with a friend (even if it’s on the phone, which is technically against the rules). I’m setting up a little reading nook in my apartment where I can just relax — with no television nearby. I’m also going to get back into yoga, because that is the single most relaxing and rejuvenating thing ever, short of sitting on a beach in Hawaii.

So here’s my question to you: what do you do to relax at the end of the day? Do you have the same technology issues I do, or have you found some way to resist the temptation of that blinking light on your smart phone? How, in other words, do you cope with all the distractions of the Modern World?

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5 Responses to Woes of the Modern World

  1. Alex says:

    I totally agree with you, and I definitely think exercise and deliberately spending some time outside helps. I am of the mind that our very humanity is inextricably linked to nature, and that our technologically frantic and workaholic way of life is not only stressful and increases the risk of health problems and psychopathology, but is in many respects unsustainable. We need time to stop and smell the roses – it’s what makes us human.

  2. eayc says:

    YES! Some days I think my iPhone and wifi have to be the two worst inventions. I can’t go five minutes without checking Twitter on my phone. When I sit down to write with the best of intentions I invariably end up at LitReactor or io9. Net book research turns into anything but.
    I have tried using good old pen and paper but my thoughts move so much faster than my pen hand I just end up frustrated.
    I love to write out in the backyard out of wifi range but end up, more often than not, distracted by dogs and butterflies and the like. I suppose those are better distractions, though.
    My best ideas seem to come just as I’m falling asleep, with no outside distractions. I am still trying to figure out how to harness this.
    I hate to complain about how rough technology has made life in light of all the suffering in the world but, ugh, sometimes it’s far more trouble than it’s worth!

    • I’m glad I’m not alone. As for the ideas when you fall asleep, I keep a pen and pad of paper by my bed! Sometimes I have to drag myself out of my half-sleep to write things down, and sometimes I end up jotting down nonsense, but SOMETIMES it’s good stuff!

  3. As an online publisher and technology enthusiast, it’s very easy to get sucked into the Internet and our associated identities. Social networks like Twitter and Facebook actually seem to make the ‘gravitational’ pull of the Internet even more powerful. With the recent uptick in scientific studies and media coverage, I have found myself a bit more mindful of my ‘tech’ habits and it’s kind of scary. Like, I find myself reaching for my phone to check my email or Twitter for no apparent reason. I just hope that by being mindful of this, I can slowly pull myself away to some degree and enjoy the real world more.

    Original PLoS article on the subject
    http://www.plosone.org/article/info%3Adoi%2F10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0030253

    Another interesting piece on why our brains might just be ‘wired’ for addiction
    http://www.forbes.com/sites/alicegwalton/2012/02/06/your-brain-may-be-wired-for-addiction-but-you-dont-have-to-surrender/

  4. Emily says:

    I think people have forgotten what it means to be really “social”. Interacting with a machine, even if its the medium to contact other people, still means you are interacting primarily with a machine. How is this going to impact communication in the future? Will people not be able to read body language any longer? Will people only know my emotional status if I clarify with emoticons?

    As a person that interacts with people on a daily basis–by phone, email, in person–I have seen over the years how people are more inclined to contact me via a machine than in person. Why? Because social interaction is a skill. And like a skill, if people don’t practice it they become bad a it. Are we going to lose our ability to interact with one another face-to-face?

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